By means of this kickstart I show you how you can (re) get in touch with yourself and how you can get a clear picture of who you are and what you have to do!
They are the first steps to get moving, because you can always start! Instead of asking yourself ‘It has to be different, but how?’ start in small steps with what you do know. The rest will come naturally! I promise
STEP 1 Dare to trust your intuition again. Date with yourself
Women possess a tremendously valuable dose of intuition and feminine power. However, we have been taught that for every choice we want to make, we must have a clear reason, rather than relying on our gut feeling to point us in the right direction. Or that we have to work with the same amount of energy and decisiveness every day to achieve our goal, instead of listening to our body and using our energy more intelligently. We suppress our feminine power and wave our intuition away and that is such a shame! And it is no longer necessary.
To organize your life in a way that brings out the very best for YOU, you have to learn to trust your intuition (again) and use your feminine power so that it also works for YOU!
From now on you plan 1 hour per week for yourself and you look for silence to make contact with yourself. This can be done in many ways, a walk in nature, an extended bath, writing it off, or meditating. Does it sound too floaty to you? Go do it first, then we’ll talk. You take yourself seriously and that’s why you never miss a date. You are also not allowed to do anything for someone else during this appointment! (so you don’t fold the laundry in silence, for example)
“Her intuition was her favorite superpower. ”
Step 2 Writing assignments
The following writing assignments ensure that you listen to your feelings without judgment, blockages or convictions and that you give this space on paper. You can easily carry out these assignments during the dates with yourself, but you can of course plan this completely differently.
- What makes you happy?
That’s right! This is a very simple question. But is the answer to this simple? Can you write down without hesitation, expectations and beliefs what makes you happy? Bring it on!
- What do you dream of?
If you start today with what makes you happy, it doesn’t mean you can’t have dreams anymore. You can ALWAYS dream! Dream big and remember, to get to your dream you are in exactly the right place. All your dreams may be there. They don’t make you selfish. They can be there, even if you don’t think you need them at all. Shamelessly write down all your dreams!
- What are you good at?
Now look at yourself. Everything, or at least a lot, of what comes easily to you, you take for granted. What comes so easily to you that it no longer even feels like a talent or where you think: everyone can do that!? Not so! Everyone, including you, has natural talents. Use these glasses to write down what you are good at!
- What do you also want to be good at?
Write down your beliefs that you want to let go because they are not true, or no longer serve you. Then write down what you also want to be good at, now that you have let go of these beliefs.
- What are your fears?
You may now be thinking: “How am I going to get it all done? What if it doesn’t work? What if no one is waiting for me? What if…” Very logical and normal. But it’s a shame to let you get in the way. Without fear, no growth. It is good to be aware of your fears so that you can recognize them faster and make a different decision at that moment. What’s stopping you from growing? Write on those fears!
“Do one thing every day that scares you!”
- Make choices!
Step by step you come (again) closer to yourself. You take yourself seriously, by making time and space and checking with yourself what makes you happy. What you still dream of, what you are already very good at, what is holding you back and what fears can help you on your way. And now? Action in the taxi! What choice can you make today to take immediate action?
Make a choice and go for it. You don’t have to know everything and it doesn’t have to be perfect. Make a choice, no matter how small, and it will flow. You start moving and from that movement answers and new insights come your way. You can and may always go back after your choice. Turning right now doesn’t mean you can never turn left again. Why not? Is that a rule? What will they think of you going left after all? Does it matter? At least you tried. You have moved and you have grown.
You are that powerful outrageous woman who freely and shamelessly chooses for herself.
Has your fire been lit and are you ready to choose even greater and more outrageous for yourself? Do you have your dream clear and can you use some help to make rigorous choices to realize it? Do you want to reorganize your life, so that you come into its own in this, but could you use a kick in the ass?
I am here for you darling!
I turned my life around, threw certainties overboard and started living again. My way! It is possible, also for you.